Are eCigarettes a Real Option for Smokers?

e-cigarette vaporBack in January, the Honey Badger quit saying that my horrible habit didn’t bother him. In fact, he complained that I was concerned about HIS health and what he ate and the number of sodas he drank, and yet I was still puffing away on my vice.

He asked me to quit and I told him that I’d give it my best shot. He went a step further and bought me an e-cig at a convenience store to try. I agreed, but, honestly, I hated it.

So he went to the Internet and started doing research to help encourage me. He said that the e-cigs were free of all the chemicals I was currently inhaling (except for nicotine). Armed with his chemistry degree and his experience in the medical industry, he was pretty convincing. He said that the “vapor” was basically water and glycerine. He asked me to try another brand of e-cig and when I agreed, he went back to his research. A few hours later he came to me with his findings. Continue reading

Time for a Face Lift

new yearIt never fails, a new year approaches and I’m ready to update the look and feel of the websites. I’m considering a few fairly awesome paid templates to customize WickedBlog, WickedWriter and LivingSmall into a more coordinated online effort.

In the meantime, I’d love to hear from anyone who has successfully located a beautiful, easy-to-customize and SEO calibrated theme. If you are willing to share your secrets with me (and my readers), step up!

Discouraged

A little over a year ago, I had my schedule figured out. You know, the ideal schedule… one where I worked a reasonable number of hours (a new concept to me prior to that time) and took some personal time. It was a sweet there for a few months.

Now, I feel like my schedule is steam-rolling my life. (More like other people’s needs are trumping my own.) I don’t care much for the condition of my little cabin. I don’t like the sheer mass of “stuff” I’ve accumulated in the last couple years. I don’t care much for the low-quality junk food I’m consuming. I don’t care much for the hours I’m keeping. I’m not particularly happy with the decisions I’ve made — or rather the place I’ve found myself as a result of NOT making decisions, and letting myself be pulled this way and that.

So I have to scratch my head and try to figure out how and why I let this go awry. And, I have to fix it. NOW. It’s November and I’ve never been very good at starting a new year on a bad foot. I want things organized and planned and organized and clean and… did I mention organized?… by the time January 1 rolls around. I get this disease from my mother. It’s kind of a curse.

At least once a year I’m extremely organized, or horribly depressed… depending on what I do in the few weeks preceding the fateful date. So, the question is… what will it be this year? Organized, on track and happy… or miserable?

I think it’s time to get busy…

Fall Floats Into Kentucky

Windchimes ring in the Fall Season in Kentucky at the cabinSaturday marked the first day of Fall and suddenly it FELT like it. I LOVE sweater weather… I DO… but I think I’m going to need to get another sweater or two. Fall seems to have snuck up on me this year. Right now, I’m going to consider it hoodie weather. This is “grill out” and “eat in” weather. It’s “walk briskly to stay warm” weather. It’s “hot cocoa hugging and slow sipping” weather.

I’m not a huge fan of winter, although I DO enjoy a good snow. More than a week of sweltering Summer is tiresome to me and leaves me yearning for a change. But Spring and Fall are fantastic. I love the change. I love never knowing what the weather will be and adding or peeling layers as needed. I like warm sunny days of soaking up sun rays and the chilly nights perfect for cuddling. I like rainy, drizzly, dreary gray days that keep things interesting.

Rain is growing up!The puppy is growing, family has come in to visit from Florida (Hi, Dee!!) and Indiana (Hi, Kelli!), it’s band competition season, the one surviving watermelon on the vine is nearly ripe, and 2012 is gearing down…

And it’s here. Fall has arrived. Fall in Kentucky is awesome! The animals are all out on the farm. I even saw a coyote this weekend. There are red-headed woodpeckers, hummingbirds, squirrels, rabbits, deer, turkey, hawks, owls, snakes, chipmunks and things that go thump in the woods at night. The stars are brighter when the weather is crisp. I don’t know why.

The leaves are starting to fall and the breeze that’s kicking up keeps the chimes on the front porch singing in deep, low, melodic tones. It’s fall, I’m on the farm, and life is pretty fantastic.

Happy Fall everyone!

 

Finally Found: The PERFECT Purse

Anyone who knows me knows the joke… they call me a purse fanatic. Let me explain. I’m a simple woman. I don’t want a closet full of purses. In fact, I want ONE purse and I’ve looked for “the one” forever. Until just recently, I’d buy a bag that showed promise, carry it for awhile and decide I needed to keep looking. I’d donate bags as quickly as I acquired them.

I finally found it and by doing so, I realized that I’d been approaching the purse search all wrong. If there are too many “organizational” pockets, I loose stuff (or I forget where something is supposed to go and everything ends up all dumped in the bottom) and I have purse-chaos.

It wasn’t lots of pockets and dividers and zippers I needed. (Too many of those and I spend my life hunting for stuff.) What I needed was a comfortable-to-carry bag made of supple, fabulous leather in a dark brown to go with everything. What I needed was to rethink what I carry everywhere and then find a bag that works for ONLY what I need.

With that said, I’ll admit I carry a lot. I’m a geek and it shows.

My Purse

Yeah, that’s right. My purse. I found a great bag — the “ideal” purse I’ve been seeking for years and years (possibly decades). It’s a great little Frank Clegg bag that I picked up at a second hand shop for a song — three bucks to be exact. It’s not “high-tech” but it’s perfect for me. The bag is hand-made and the leather is so nice I find myself “petting” it when I carry it or when it’s beside me in the truck. Yeah, it’s really THAT nice. It’s so nice that I bought a Kindle Fire to go in it.

Ok, maybe I was considering a smaller tablet because the iPad was just too big to be a “carry everywhere” device… but it sure fits in this bag like it was a purposeful thing. :)

It has three main interior sections – two largish ones and a central divider pocket for that “little stuff” I need to grab all the time. It also has a single slotted pocket in the back interior that fits my Bionic perfectly (all the while keeping it free from scratches and in a location where I can always find it quickly and can return it to the proper place with ease). It also offers a slotted back pocket.

The strap is a single, broad slice of leather that doesn’t constantly slip off my shoulder. I’d tried long straps, I’d tried double-straps, I’d tried “cross body” styles. All of those kept me in a constant battle with keeping the thing in place. This strap is naturally “no-slip” and it’s just long enough that the purse fits under my arm and I can “hold” it with an elbow without effort or thought. THAT’s nice.

It’s not huge, but it’s large enough for my essentials (including the Fire, which has its own dedicated pocket). It also expands as needed and goes sleek and flat when not stuffed. If a bag is too deep, stuff lands in the bottom and I have to “dig” for it. I’m so sick of that!

The coolest thing is the flap. I’ve always fought flaps. If they are too big, I have to fight them to get them out of the way so I can access the purse. Catches and zippers make that problem worse — but I like the idea of a secure closure so I don’t lose things. The X design of the leather front means the flap tucks in easily and is fast to un-tuck to get what I need. It’s perfect.

Clegg doesn’t make this model anymore, unfortunately, but I’m hoping mine will last for many MANY years to come. After two months with it going everywhere I go, I think it just might. If anything, it looks BETTER the more I use it. Isn’t THAT refreshing?

If you want one of your own, you might keep an eye out over on eBay. But, I’ll just warn you… if I find it first, I’ll have a “backup” tucked away incase something happens to this one! ;)